There's somehing that brings humans together: problems. Everyone has their own problems, big or small. Some people think that others are perfect, but that's because they hide what's bothering them or they deal with it in a less obvious way. Everyone has problems-that's what life's about. I'm starting to think that this idea is true. I'm not saying it in a pessimistic way, but it is a universal link. Have you ever sat on a train and looked at the seemingly perfect girl sitting there-she has problems. Or the man reading the Times with his Rolex-he has problems. Even people with outwardly miniscule lives have problems.
It's hard, but we all need to learn how to deal with them. I think that it's important that everyone figure out a postitive way to do so. I notice that the best way to start this process is to write down all the problems that you have. Next to each problem, check off whether the problem is in your control or not. Then check off whether it's permanent or not. After doing this, you'll probably notice that most of the problems that are darkening your days are things that can be fixed by next season. Sometimes organization is the best way to begin to clean up your life. I'm beginning to notice that changing your environment and decluttering your space can make you feel much better.
Sometimes the best ways to help your mentality are to do art, listen to music, exercise, sing, dance, play sports, talk to someone, journal, read, or start a project. I'm looking at my Spring Break as a hiatus from all the things that are causing me to go crazy. I plan to organize my mess, create a plan for the future, and learn to be happier.
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